Stop Waiting to Exhale…
A few years ago I hit rock bottom. I was a bestselling author going through an emotionally draining divorce that eventually left me flat broke. Bitter and full of resentment I was one angry Black woman, mad at the entire world. “Why me?” was the question I constantly asked myself back then. I had lost my home, my expensive car and most of all my marriage. But instead of wallowing in self-pity I exhaled while making a conscious decision to stop being angry and to simply let go of the past.
My revelation began with an article by Iyanla Vanzant. She quoted Proverbs 3:6 “See His will in all you do and He will show you what path to take.” When I decided to let go of the past the first thing I embraced was my faith. I actively sought out God and his Holy wisdom in helping me to become a better person. Secondly, I had to realize that changing is a process; my anger and bitterness wasn’t going to go away overnight. So I made a conscious effort every day to do something that would make me a better person. I repeated positive affirmations in the mirror, I started a journal which would later become my second bestselling book and I stop being a bench warmer in church and became an active member. I stop allowing my ex-husband to bully me with his words and his expensive lawyer and I took a stand. I decided that my self-worth was priceless. I realized that I had to value myself before I could expect anyone else to find value in me.
Why I’m I sharing this with you? Because I want you to know that you don’t have to wait to exhale. Take a deep breath and decide right now to just let it all go. Life doesn’t have to be hard and you don’t have to be a miserable bitch that nobody likes to be around. Inhale the positives and simple let go of the negatives by exhaling.
CJ Domino is the CEO of Shero Productions. A life coach and the author of Sideline Ho and Who Does She Think She Is, Domino’s third book, The Games People Play will be out on October 21, 2010. For more information on CJ Domino visit www.cjdomino.com
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